We don’t necessarily sit down and decide that this is the life we want. It happens much more quietly than that. We see it, again and again, until it starts to feel normal. Until the extraordinary becomes the unreachable baseline against which we measure our own lives.
Psychology has a name for part of what happens here: upward social comparison.
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Fear of Change
I don’t always agree with the idea of “destiny”, but I like what lies behind it: often, we only understand the meaning of change once we’re much further down the road.
We like to believe that one day we’ll wake up feeling brave. That confidence will arrive overnight, certainty will finally outweigh doubt, and we’ll somehow know when it’s the right time, no hesitation.
A Life That Feels Like YOU
We don’t necessarily sit down and decide that this is the life we want. It happens much more quietly than that. We see it, again and again, until it starts to feel normal. Until the extraordinary becomes the unreachable baseline against which we measure our own lives.
Psychology has a name for part of what happens here: upward social comparison.
Fear of Change
I don’t always agree with the idea of “destiny”, but I like what lies behind it: often, we only understand the meaning of change once we’re much further down the road.
We like to believe that one day we’ll wake up feeling brave. That confidence will arrive overnight, certainty will finally outweigh doubt, and we’ll somehow know when it’s the right time, no hesitation.



